As I learn more and more about people and all of the pieces that have come into my experience to learn......I believe we all have a very inherent nature......one that is deep within us and a part of us.......BUT I am coming to believe that there really is so much we can do to change......like REALLY change......and I supposed I believed people could change.....and then maybe I didn't for a little bit.......and now I do again:).....I do believe if our nature has some deep problematic, or challenging pieces, that change will be harder......but I believe we can transmute anything, and use it for the greater good of ourselves and others....and use it to make the most of the relationships we have with others......I will give an example.....in learning about people's charts for astrology, I have learned about some of the people I know when they went to visit with Dani too and shared what they discovered.....and she can see the kind of overall human you are, and the components that you arrived in this life with......and SO much more.......and in speaking to her she has seen others with similar configurations, that have transmuted that same energy, or skill, or deficit set in a completely different way......and for me......... being an over thinker and worrier was deep in me and fostered through my early life experiences, and the nature of life......but I have worked so hard to combat that, and minimize it now in my life.....and not continue to have it hinder me.......saying yes to adventures, and the moment, and not thinking too far ahead.....and if you know my brain, and the way it works, well lol:) And that feels like freedom....to take a part of me that was challenging, and held me back, and in my nature, and changing it fully to create a NEW NATURE.......cool right? I think we can do that.....rise above what is within us.....and transcend that......some of us do better under disciplined activities others, need more free parameters......and the list goes on and on.......so yes.....there are some personality traits and "ways of being" that will always be present in us all......our true deep inherent nature......but there is also SO much that can change if we are willing.......a willingness of spirit is huge.......being willing to change and face what is in us.....and it is never too late....and not living under the weight of worry has been a game changer for me.....allowing me to enjoy my life in a new way now.......I am in a situation with a special person in my life, that I normally would have overthought my way out of due to the logistics being challenging....in fact that is what I tried to do many times, and once I surrendered to realizing that this story was meant for me to further explore, I was shown the way ....and while the logistics are still challenging, they are not impossible, and as with so many stories in my life I am trusting that the way will continue to present itself.....:) I am a rational and logical human, and while that serves me in so many parts of my life, I am using it with discernment now......not allowing it to prevent me from missing out on the fact that life is an adventure, and it is meant to LIVE:) Happy Sunday:)
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