Perspective.........

Perspective is powerful, alongside our mindset......all things live or die in our mind.....success reigns or fizzles as well......and even when life steps forward and becomes hi def.....we have the power to hold onto the things that we know to be true......I had a therapy session last night.......the first one in a bit due to crazy life schedule, and my women's series falling on the day I normally had it......and it was great to speak to him and feel validated and understood in all of what is happening.....and knowing I am on the right track and given support in the moving forward and what is possible......all of our reality lives in our perspective......and I love listening to others perspective.....one of the things I love about coaching......listening to somebody's story......their perspective on their reality.......it fascinates me......and I try whenever I am able to put myself into another person's perspective.....being able to see it all from another lens.......the ability to do that offers up somebody's ability to extend compassion.......of feeling another's pain.......love all of it......and it is important to seek out the people in your life that can do that for you when you need it most......people that know immediately and just "get it" and help you feel gotten.......so as I rally to overcome what is happening for me......to get back up on my road.......and remain on my journey......I am mindful of the things I will need as I do that.....the people I will need.......for now I am stepping completely back from the situation at hand.....have done what I can......and now I am letting it go.......and putting my focus elsewhere.......utilizing all the tools and resources I have acquired along the way.....understanding that what people do is about them.......nearly every single time......and no amount of fighting that or trying to be heard when somebody doesn't want to hear you will change that......and when emotions are high that is nearly impossible too......I have put myself in all the positions of this story, understanding them.......feeling empathy for them and that is all I can do.......and when you expect something from another, something they cannot give, it just leaves you feeling hurt and sad.......so I am laying expectations down.......turning inward some more for the things I need and the things I know to be true and seeking support in places I admire and trust.......and places where I know I can get the support I need as I travel.......which is what I have done anyway for nearly two years......and sometimes we want support from places that are not capable of giving it to us......and we need to let that go too.......that is my work to do......to adjust my expectations of those around me, letting it all be......and going to the places that feel like sunshine and healing for my soul..........today I choose to shift and move forward in a way that honors all I have done to change my life.....not letting it be caught up in somebody else's storm.........sending love and light......and stepping way back........