#fitnesssingles

OK so a new adventure to write about LOL:) I had been coached awhile back in my coaching program on my dating reluctance and challenges, and had blogged about it......you may remember......then I got the blind date message, but he was too old and we never went.....the person that was going to hook me up hadn't thought of his age......SO.......as a result of my coaching session I had made a commitment to find some outdoor hiking group or some kind of place where I may share common interests with any men I meet......and lo and behold on FB, since it listens in on my life lol;-), an ad popped up for a fitness singles dating app but the cover was of people hiking.....it caught my attention.......so that is why I decided to explore it......so I have again been a spectator on this app.......and it definitely has more promise in my mind......I think it is an easier way to find people that kinda dig what I do.....and at the very least it is good story material......so to any active ladies out there you may want to check it out:) And sometimes I do wonder why I even do any dating apps because I don't date lol:) But not because I don't want to......I just haven't found a guy that I want to go out with.....yet.....or the experiences I have had so far haven't led me to real dating......and so maybe it is for entertainment purposes for now??.....till I find somebody to date?? I did come across a Stroudsburg profile that was intriguing last night, and a Warwick one, and I took the next step and sent messages, huge for me so;-) .......we shall see! Perhaps even chatting and finding a hiking friend works for me too! .......I do trust the universal love plan for my life though.....I do.......but I guess sometimes I am unsure if it is via dating service......like to meet my match I need to do my part.......put myself in places where that is possible? but as a single mama, it is not easy to meet men......have been wanting to push myself a little to go out when they are with their dad but sometimes I just don't want to do that......so I don't......I am guessing it is a process for people.......for me there was a long time I just wasn't ready.....and alongside that I had that special friendship that had developed and that seemed like enough.......and then as I shed my marriage officially.....became single officially, and healed to a certain degree it now seems like something I do want to explore......it is the how that is the challenge......when you arrive where I am......your standards have elevated.......your desires clear.......your understanding of yourself also clear......and anything that comes, as I have mentioned, has to be better than the peace and life I have created alone.......enhancing it:) So for now this dating site is to honor the commitment I made to my coach.......letting her know I would try and explore ways to meet men doing things I love to do.......it is a part of my journey......a stepping stone on this journey and proving to be a fun one! Stay tuned;-)