So this is kinda a funny tale.....and likely when it plays itself all the way out it will be a good story:) At least that is my hope.....So on Wednesday's class it was my turn to be coached......it was our second to last class.......and truth is this week has been crazy and I hadn't given the topic I was going to be coached on much thought......but I decided that I would talk about my beliefs and mindset around dating.....I feel I have worked so hard trying to get my head right in so many areas of this journey through divorce.....and I have found so much peace and motivation in doing so.....but my mindset around dating needs some work for sure......I send mixed signals out into the universe constantly.......one side of me is fiercely protective of this new life I have made......not interested in changing it, or sharing it......no need to add anything or anybody into the mix.........loving driving my own bus....loving the life I have created with my kids......and truly.......content......but then......there is another whole part of me......one that misses certain things about a relationship......or about having some male energy and attention in my life.....just some stuff......and sometimes I fantasize about this magical man that may come and find me one day......and that idea is kinda cool too.......so most days I stand in the middle of these two places......but never worrying too much about it.......never getting too stressed......I just trust and accept that whatever is for me will be.......so I had an awesome coaching session about this......we laughed a lot and it was lighthearted and fun.......we also talked about the other complication for me which is the where.......? I am just not loving dating sites, and not having much luck there, and other than hanging with my kids.....well.......so my action step is going to be to see if there are some hiking or outdoor groups locally that I can be a part of.......looking to meet somebody that shares some of my interests.......so I am on the lookout for that......so then after all that energy I put out there during my session I wake up the next morning to a message in my inbox........it was from a lady I just recently crossed paths with.......she and I had the opportunity to talk quite a bit as the circumstance allowed......and somehow I was able to discover that she has legitimate matchmaker prowess.......she has set up people that have ended up happily married:)......she works in business and crosses a lot of paths......so she had joked that she would keep her eyes peeled for me lol:). I didn't think too much about it......and it was a few months ago......but the morning after my session, I woke up to her asking me if I would be interested in going on a blind date.......? it made me laugh at first because of law of attraction......we talk about that on our coaching calls a lot.....and I feel like I summoned such a universal response ;-) but you know what.....yeah.....a blind date actually sounds sorta perfect for my current speed into the world of dating.........the pros are I trust this lady......her judgement......it is a person that is being recommended.....not a stranger.....and I am a big enough girl to say the truth if I am not feeling it.......and maybe I make a new single friend.....that would be cool too......so I feel like this situation was served up to me....a temporary solution to my current dilemma;-) and in my new life it is more yes.....less no.......so yeah I think I may be headed on a blind date.......stay tuned;-)
jperuso
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