Sometimes throughout this journey I have had some of my unhealed spots poked and prodded, based on situations I have found myself...

I try to not live in regret in my life......I don't think it is a helpful place to go......because the truth is most of us are doing the...

So over the last nearly year I have been single.....my divorce is not final......but as far as I am concerned that doesn't make me any...

We all see that meme bouncing around that says to focus on the stair not the staircase......but it is true.....in every sense.....every...

I made some action steps in the last few days that will help move me forward to living out some of my dreams! I bought a computer a...

I have learned some things about healing in my life......and especially in the last year through this last challenge that came to visit...

He should be ashamed of himself........I don't say this lightly or in a way that makes all that happened in our marriage his fault not...

So loneliness is an interesting thing......I am keenly aware, and feel I have learned through this......... that it has nothing to do...

So the pandemic has hung over this whole experience even before he left.....and its role cannot be discounted in what has...

This week has been a doozy, lots of stuff swirling about that could easily come in and rob me of my peace......the peace I fought so hard...

There have been many AHA moments throughout this journey.......feel like Oprah most days LOL:) many moments that have come carrying a...

Boy if we are honest there are a bunch right? We tell ourselves things daily or through our lives that just are NOT true......I am an...

Our custody stuff is still up in the air and complicated at best due to many factors.....but at some point the sharing of holidays is...

SO so much of this has been clear, clear in ways I did not expect......clear in ways that still shock me.....as if somebody is whispering...

I feel like in the last 10 months I have discovered the answer to this question......and I am just on the tip of the iceberg......which...

I try my best to walk through this the best I can.....letting go of what I can and what I need to to move forward in my life, and not let...

Obviously I am reflecting on my marriage and my life before often, as this year has marched on.....and I have to say as eye opening as it...

I was speaking to somebody last night......she is somebody that has read my blog all along and found her own healing within its words as...

I know awhile back I promised to write more about me than him......I think I have kept that promise overall.....but I also am committed...

My kitchen is a daily reminder of what people are capable of.......what the people we trust the most are capable of. It is still...