I wrote about control in yesterday's blog and wondering what role it plays in my dislike of the custody stuff.....the disdain I...

I think that was yesterday.....mediation....or maybe one of the hardest days.....second thought there have been quite a few.......but...

I just didn't realize she was at the time......One of the uglier parts of this story happened right after I found out about their affair...

Interesting question right? Tough question most definitely......so much I know now that I didn't then.....and to think of setting myself...

Peace I mean.......like truly how does it arrive in our lives.....I often marvel at the presence of it in my life now.....I truly looked...

It occurred to me the other day that I don't love him anymore......I know right yikes!:( I always thought this special place would reside...

I feel like that may have been true most of my life......feeling like I was the strong one in every circle I ran in......feeling the...

Last year the weekend after he left I took to the task of putting away Christmas......on my own, as my first act of full independence in...

Today is the first real holiday in my new life......last year we had a quiet and sorta sweet holiday......under the weight of Covid we...

We have court coming up next week on two days......one a mediation in the hopes of getting it right and then a custody conference if we...

That may very well be one of the biggest lessons learned in this for me.......even though every single thing that has been done to me...

I am keenly aware, and more every day, of the new place I am in on this journey in this moment......I am far enough down the road to no...

I have always been fairly direct in my life with the people that matter. Trying my best to communicate with those I care for, and find...

Was thinking of this the other day.....feeling this piece in my heart.....that I was abandoned by my husband.......and essentially so...

Seeing a fellow mama, going through the same thing, post in the night about missing sleep, made me think of this......I don't sleep the...

I watched it last night. Haven't seen it in years. It is the first movie, besides kid ones, that I have watched since he left. ...

There are huge things that have happened to me by way of my husband that have hurt like hell......like take your breath away...

I have learned as I travel this road.....that true happiness is in enjoying the path you are traveling, not where you are traveling...

Yeah I am going here, LOL:). But not how you think.......However it is true that I miss sex and intimacy inside a marriage and feeling...

When I step foot into the woods I instantly feel better......the first moment.....like somebody took a heavy winter coat off of my...